"There is no better way to thank God for your sight than by giving a helping hand to someone in the dark." - Helen Keller
When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me." ~Erma Bombeck
You may never know how strong you are, until being strong is your only choice.- Unknown
Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow' ~Helen Keller
Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."- Dr. Seuss
"Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you react to it."
"God doesn't give children with disabilities to strong people: He gives them to ordinary, everyday people, then He helps the parents to grow stronger through the journey. Raising a child with special needs doesn't TAKE a special family, it MAKES a special family."Author Unknown
I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go – Abraham Lincoln
Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man. ~ Benjamin Franklin
There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as if everything is a miracle - Albert Einstein
The journey of a 1000 miles starts with a single step
Sometimes in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives you a fairy tale
Where there is great love, there are always miracles - Willa Cather
The Difficult we can do immediately, the impossible takes a little longer
Doing what you like is freedom. Liking what you do is happiness
There are two lasting bequests we can give our children. One is roots. The other is wings.
Be the change you want to see in the world
Don't tell God how big the storm is, tell the storm how big Your God is..........
Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it
Fall down seven times - get up eight - unknown
Despite our differences, we sink or swim together
Life may not be the party we expected, but while we are here, we might as well dance
"The man who moves a mountain begins by carrying away small stones." -Confucius
This year, Easter was a warm, sunny 74 degrees. It was so pretty that we got to actually take some outdoor photos of the kids in their Easter outfits.
The kids were up early, ready to egg hunt. We did chase them back to bed for about 1/2 hour because it was only 7am.
The Easter bunny hid their eggs all over the house. If we hadn't had all that rain the week prior, I think the Easter Bunny would have liked to put them outside.
The kids had a good time looking for the eggs full of goodies, and some with numbers.
The numbers corresponded with their presents. That EB. He is a pretty cool guy.
We did attend church on Sunday. I wish I would have had my video camera. The children's choir sang a song and Arlington was the loudest one!
She sung her heart out. It was pretty cute, and the people around us said "she really likes to sing!" Yes she does. All.The.Time.
After church we took some pictures and then the kids changed and played outside for a few hours.
It was hard to drag them in.
We had a nice dinner, and relaxed and watched "Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs". It was a nice day.
Yesterday proved to be a crazy day to return to work. I returned to a kid who fell so hard on the playground and he gave himself a concussion and an orbital fracture. Sigh. Poor guy. He was just a 1st grader. He came to my office looking pretty sad and said "I don't feel so good".
All he really wanted to do was sleep. I had to play 100 questions with him to keep him awake until dad got there to take him to the hospital.
Within the last three days we have had a broken arm, a broken shoulder, and now.....a broken eye. You would think that these kids have been tied to the couch for 6 months and they didn't get up at all. They are very clumsy. So excited to be outside!
I am hoping for a better day tomorrow. I wrote 2 incident reports last year.
Within the last 2 weeks - I have written 8.
Today was a busy day for our family. Arlington had her after school gymnastics class. I have to say - she is doing well. She has gotten the cartwheel down! And they climbed a rope today - pretty cool.
We came home and swallowed dinner, and then at 6pm she had softball practice. Practice, I thought was from 6-7, but it ended up being 6 "until dark". Uh, okay. We left at 7:15 - that was plenty! She is 7.
I am sure Arlington is going to sleep good tonight.
The other two are doing well. Finley is no less.....Finley. She is enjoying locking all of our doors, locking herself in rooms, pushing her brother around, and just getting into general trouble.
Every family has a Finley. I am sorry to tell my sister in law this who wants more kids. Her first baby is a good boy. That doesn't fair well for the second one.
We have three more days and then Arlington and I are on spring break. We are not going anywhere this year for Spring break. Mat has a business trip so my parents are coming for a visit for part of it. But otherwise, I am hopefully going to be getting a lot of projects done.
Yeah. We will see how well that works.
Enjoy the rest of your week! I will see you Saturday.
I am afraid I might jinx it, but I think we might have turned a weather corner. Today was a beautiful day. High in the 70s.
But before we get to the good, let's talk about the bad. At the beginning of this week, for the first two days, we had nothing but rain. I think someone told me we had a total of 9 inches of rain. There was flooding everywhere.
We did have a small landslide in our yard in two spots.
Our hillsides are just a little over a year old. And the cheapest grass was planted on them because, well, I want to cover them with plants.
So down part of them came. It is neat how they slid in a way. It slid in a large chunk, and actually buckled the ground in front of it.
As of today - Saturday - 3 full days after the last of the rain, we are still getting quite the stream of water running down our hill and down our driveway. It is going to be awhile before our yard is not a squishy mess.
Finley and Cainan did not have school on Wednesday. On Tuesday is was near impossible for Mat to pick them up, so we should have seen that coming. Since it did not quit raining until Wednesday morning, the roads were still covered with water by the time the school should have opened.
So Mat stayed home with them on Wednesday. They had a great time here in the house all day with him.
Wednesday morning - Arlington woke up with hives. Just a few. She has been on an antibiotic for strep throat for 8 days at this point. When I looked up the antibiotic online, I find that it is in the penicillin family, yet not a penicillin itself. Arlington and Finley are allergic to penicillin. My pediatrician knows this. So we can now add cephalosporins to our list of allergies. Poor girl. She was itchy, but okay. We stop the medication and she goes off to school.
Thursday - Arlington wakes up and the hives are worse. Much worse.
She has them on her face, her palms, her soles of her feet, her lips, etc. All over her entire body. She is one giant hive.
She was pretty itchy, but I gave her benadryl and that seemed to help a lot. She is not running a fever, but having the hives on her palms and soles (places that are very rare to get hives) I did call the doctor. We both agreed it was probably the medication, but the doctor wanted to see her before days end.
Finley gets up and she has a mild case of hives at this point as well. So now both girls have hives and neither are getting any more antibiotics that is for sure! (for this case of strep - not forever)
I do send Arlington to school because I am that awesome of a mom. Honestly, if you were me - the last two weeks have been a wash. Between she and Finley Mat and I missed a whole week of work. Wednesday, Mat missed again. We just couldn't keep staying home.
Arlington was fever free, itch free (when I sent her), and the doctor thought she was okay. I sent a note to both girl's teachers and sent them on their way.
A 10am, the nurse from Arlington's school calls me. She is very itchy. And crying. The nurse said she could stay at school, but it was my call. I called Mat and luckily he had a light afternoon, so he went and got her.
Sigh. Stupid antibiotic.
Thursday afternoon, we see the pediatrician and she confirms the case of hives being from the antibiotic. Yeah.....duh. This is a different pediatrician than the one who prescribed the drug, and she was not that happy that the other one had prescribed this particular antibiotic.
Too. Late. Now.
So the girls are getting benadryl every so many hours until the hives are gone. The pediatrician did say having the hives on their hands and feet was rare, but not impossible. No kidding. There they were.
Friday there wasn't school for Arlington or I. Easter Holiday break. Finley and Cainan did have school, so I sent them. Finley had a few more hives Friday, but wasn't that itchy. And her nurse at school was giving her benadryl there, so she did fine.
The girls still have the hives this evening. Finley's we seem to have caught earlier than Arlington's, so hers are very light today. Arlington looks pretty good with her face and hands, but her legs and belly are still covered heavy with hives.
Back to the sunny part of my story. Ah yes - the beautiful weather.
Today started with softball practice with Arlington. She is really loving it and is doing pretty well with it. She got a chance to play catcher today. I wish I would have had my camera. I would have loved to have taken a picture of her with all of that catcher's gear on. It was pretty funny. At one point she almost fell over because it was so heavy.
Cainan had his next to last swimming lesson today. Mat said he didn't cry, but he still isn't going much but shivering to death in the pool. This is because he refuses to move around.
Arlington had a birthday party this afternoon. It was at the movie theater and we saw "How to Train Your Dragon". I must say - this is one of the best animated films I have seen in awhile. It was really good. Even if you don't have children, you should think about seeing this film. It was very good.
After the movie, we came home to the little ones and Mat playing outside. Arlington changed her clothes and headed outside to be with them. I let them dig in the dirt today. They totally loved that.
The girls got very dirty.
Cainan stayed neat as usual. He dug a little, but mostly he just watched.
Finley cracked me up. At one point I catch her digging with all of her might.
She says "Arlington told me that if I keep digging, I will reach China!!"
And so it begins.
Arlington chuckled when I asked her if she told her sister this. I made Arlington go and stop Finley's frantic dig.
Apparently Arlington has also told Finley that there might be a hand in her underwear drawer.
Finley is not the least bit phased by this information. She told me this information very matter of fact. I look at Arlington and she just shrugs. Finley also told me tonight that she did not "want to turn the wrong way and run into the mean bears and kangaroos". What is that now?
Finley adores her big sister and will believe everything she tells her.
The benefits of being the eldest child.
Cainan wrote his name in chalk outside today in chalk.
He is getting pretty good at it. Finley has been working on her last name, but I didn't get a picture of that. :)
Our Star Magnolia Tree has started to bloom.
Spring blooms are about the best thing to see after a long winter. And a reason to smile on this beautiful day. Have a wonderful Easter tomorrow with your families! My kids are very excited about the Easter Bunny's visit. We will be going to church and enjoying a relaxing day at home.
See you Tuesday! No Sunday or Monday posts this week.
We are a family of 5 living in Massachusetts. Mat and I have been married for 16 years, and we have three children. Arlington is 11 years old, and Finley and Cainan are 8 years old. We adopted Cainan from China when he was 14 months old. He was born with cleft lip and palate level three. This blog started out as our journey to bring him into our family and has turned into our family blog. He and Finley are only 30 days apart!! We love being a blended family, and enjoy sharing about our trials and tribulations through becoming one! Also, our daughter Finley was diagnosed in 2009 with Lebers Congenital Amaurosis (LCA) a rare genetic eye condition that has made her legally blind. Come and read about our proud family! If you want to read Cainan's story, click here: The Pletcher Five Journey Blessings Times Three: Cainan's Story