"There is no better way to thank God for your sight than by giving a helping hand to someone in the dark." - Helen Keller
When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me." ~Erma Bombeck
You may never know how strong you are, until being strong is your only choice.- Unknown
Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow' ~Helen Keller
Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."- Dr. Seuss
"Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you react to it."
"God doesn't give children with disabilities to strong people: He gives them to ordinary, everyday people, then He helps the parents to grow stronger through the journey. Raising a child with special needs doesn't TAKE a special family, it MAKES a special family."Author Unknown
I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go – Abraham Lincoln
Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man. ~ Benjamin Franklin
There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as if everything is a miracle - Albert Einstein
The journey of a 1000 miles starts with a single step
Sometimes in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives you a fairy tale
Where there is great love, there are always miracles - Willa Cather
The Difficult we can do immediately, the impossible takes a little longer
Doing what you like is freedom. Liking what you do is happiness
There are two lasting bequests we can give our children. One is roots. The other is wings.
Be the change you want to see in the world
Don't tell God how big the storm is, tell the storm how big Your God is..........
Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it
Fall down seven times - get up eight - unknown
Despite our differences, we sink or swim together
Life may not be the party we expected, but while we are here, we might as well dance
"The man who moves a mountain begins by carrying away small stones." -Confucius
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Thankful
This will be my last post until after Thanksgiving. I probably won't return until the Tuesday after Thanksgiving because we have a busy week and family to visit, etc. So I won't have much time for blogging I am afraid.
Mat and I took the kids to a local state park today to take our annual Christmas photos of them. It went pretty well. We took 125 pictures and were able to pick our 4 to use for this year. It is hard to get three kids to cooperate for a pictures - especially outside. But it is done.
I am going to share some pictures on this blog today from our photo shoot, but I will not be sharing the final ones. Those I will reserve for family and those who receive our annual Christmas card. Today in church, a young man sung a song. It talked about being thankful for what we have even with so much that is sad or hurtful in the world. At this time of year, we remember all that our family is thankful for.
This summer, we were given news about Finley that made us sad and angry. But in the midst of that, we were thankful for many things about the situation. We were thankful that she still has her sight now. We were thankful that is was not life threatening. We were thankful that research is making such amazing strides that we may see a cure in the very near future.
We are thankful that all of our children are healthy. There are so many blogs I read where the families are dealing with serious illnesses with their children.
We are thankful that we added two new members to our extended family this year. Well - almost two! Our nephew who was born in June, and I have a niece due to be born in just a few weeks. We love that our family is growing by leaps and bounds and that each Christmas will be filled with more joy and laughter of all of the kids.
We are thankful for our jobs. In an economy that has still not improved, we are lucky to both be working full time in areas we enjoy.
We are thankful for our home. We take it for granted how lucky we are that we have a warm, beautiful home to come to after work each day.
I could go on forever. We take everyday things for granted. We expect our home, our jobs, our health to be there. We get upset at the little things that happen. The stress of the holidays sometimes outweighs what is really important.
Our pastor talked this morning about how Christmas has become what we as a society has made it, and the real meaning is lost. She's right. We get caught up in finding the perfect present or making the perfect meal, and forget that all we really need is spending time with each other.
We have been really good at eating dinner together as a family. It gives us a chance to talk about our days. It shows our kids that family meal time and spending time together is a top priority for us.
As the kids get older, I hope to instill family game night as well. We love playing games together, and it will be another time we can all be together doing an activity.
Time passes quickly. The baby stage of my kids is over. We will never again have a little baby in our house. It is sad in a lot of ways. But I am thankful for each new stage that my kids are in. I am thankful I am watching them grow into wonderful little people and decent human beings.
This is the first year in 12 years that Mat and I will be having Thanksgiving with family. We have always lived too far away from family to make a trip to see them over such a short holiday.
But this year, we are anxious to spend this holiday with our family and show them how thankful we are for them.
Happy Thanksgiving to all of you! I will be back to blogging after the holiday weekend! I can't believe by then it will be December!
There was a study on TV last week that talked about how to raise loving, successful, happy children and 1 of the most important ways they said to accomplish this was by having a meal together each day where you can share the day. Dad and I have such wonderful memories of our meals each evening with you and A.J. I am so glad you guys are doing that also.
We are counting the hours to you are all with us for the holiday.
I just love all of the photos you have put on here. Even though they aren't the final pick they are wonderful!!! Hope your Thanksgiving was a wonderful and blessed one.
We are a family of 5 living in Massachusetts. Mat and I have been married for 16 years, and we have three children. Arlington is 11 years old, and Finley and Cainan are 8 years old. We adopted Cainan from China when he was 14 months old. He was born with cleft lip and palate level three. This blog started out as our journey to bring him into our family and has turned into our family blog. He and Finley are only 30 days apart!! We love being a blended family, and enjoy sharing about our trials and tribulations through becoming one! Also, our daughter Finley was diagnosed in 2009 with Lebers Congenital Amaurosis (LCA) a rare genetic eye condition that has made her legally blind. Come and read about our proud family! If you want to read Cainan's story, click here: The Pletcher Five Journey Blessings Times Three: Cainan's Story
5 comments:
These pictures are awesome!!! Can't wait to see you all in a few days <3
I love the pictures. The kids are beautiful! Enjoy your time in C'ville. Sorry we'll miss you this time. Marge
There was a study on TV last week that talked about how to raise loving, successful, happy children and 1 of the most important ways they said to accomplish this was by having a meal together each day where you can share the day. Dad and I have such wonderful memories of our meals each evening with you and A.J. I am so glad you guys are doing that also.
We are counting the hours to you are all with us for the holiday.
love Mom
Happy Thanksgiving! Your post is so true and the pics of the kids are adorable!
I just love all of the photos you have put on here. Even though they aren't the final pick they are wonderful!!!
Hope your Thanksgiving was a wonderful and blessed one.
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