"There is no better way to thank God for your sight than by giving a helping hand to someone in the dark." - Helen Keller
When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me." ~Erma Bombeck
You may never know how strong you are, until being strong is your only choice.- Unknown
Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow' ~Helen Keller
Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."- Dr. Seuss
"Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you react to it."
"God doesn't give children with disabilities to strong people: He gives them to ordinary, everyday people, then He helps the parents to grow stronger through the journey. Raising a child with special needs doesn't TAKE a special family, it MAKES a special family."Author Unknown
I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go – Abraham Lincoln
Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man. ~ Benjamin Franklin
There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as if everything is a miracle - Albert Einstein
The journey of a 1000 miles starts with a single step
Sometimes in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives you a fairy tale
Where there is great love, there are always miracles - Willa Cather
The Difficult we can do immediately, the impossible takes a little longer
Doing what you like is freedom. Liking what you do is happiness
There are two lasting bequests we can give our children. One is roots. The other is wings.
Be the change you want to see in the world
Don't tell God how big the storm is, tell the storm how big Your God is..........
Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it
Fall down seven times - get up eight - unknown
Despite our differences, we sink or swim together
Life may not be the party we expected, but while we are here, we might as well dance
"The man who moves a mountain begins by carrying away small stones." -Confucius
Saturday, January 30, 2010
By the light of the moon - craziness shall be in bloom
This week, with the appearance of the "wolf moon" made me realize why the kids at the school were acting so nutty. By Friday morning, I was spent and asked a co-worker if there was a full moon, and she told me yes - a "wolf moon". (click on the words to read more about it)
That did not sound promising.
And it wasn't. Friday I was ready to tell the kids to "get a grip" when they came in hoards to my office for one thing or another. No one was sick - they just were out of sorts. All this week - I just couldn't put my finger on it. The teachers and I thought we had turned a corner with the kids - less nurse visit requests, smoother days, more work getting done......
Then....the moon appeared.
If you are a pediatric nurse, or work with children in any field, you will be with me when I say - the full moon has an effect on kids. I believe it. They go off the deep end - can't focus, don't eat well, whine more than normal. It is pretty crazy.
But we made it through. Last night over night, though, Finley woke up crying that she needed a kleenex. Started screaming her head off a 1:00 in the morning. Doing this woke and startled Arlington and Arlington came into the room and said "I can't sleep with Finley screaming like that!" Huh - really? The girls never wake up and never have a bad night.....
Full moon, I tell ya. Ha ha ha!
So today, we are all exhausted. We don't feel like doing much around the house. Mat did work on the cabinets in the basement. Then realized that some pieces he bought were not right. So back to the store tomorrow. Slow but sure it is coming together.
Mat is working on Finley's DNA today. And by that I mean - he has the results of the samples back and he is going through them to see if she has the RPE65 gene in LCA. I am not going to get my hopes up (I will explain) because it would be too easy if that was the version she had. See, the RPE65 gene of LCA is the one they have had success on restoring sight. They have the ability to reverse the damage in this gene alone right now. I should know before I post this tonight if she has RPE65 or not.
The girl's had their swimming lessons this morning. Finley had a chance to wear her new goggles and I think that helped with the underwater moments. She would still try to wipe her eyes as soon as she came up from under the water, but then realize she didn't have to. They only have 2 more swimming lessons left.
Then is will be Cainan's turn. Wha ha ha ha ha.........
Tonight I am going to dinner and a movie with my friend Mindy from work. Mindy is on extended maternity leave and I haven't seen her in ages. I am going to see her and her baby before we go to dinner. After dinner we are seeing "When in Rome". We were going to see "Lovely Bones" but it is 150 minutes long, and we are too old to go to a late movie with that kind of length. I am looking foward to spending time with her.
As for the answer to the RPE65 question.........she doesn't have that one.
Bummer. On so many levels.
Clarification - if you do not understand the above information on the LCA update: We are still waiting for the blood work from the lab in Iowa. Mat ran his own set of DNA from Finley's saliva. The results he sent in are starting to come in. He has to sit down and go through the information he received to discover if she has a particular gene of LCA or not. There are 14 LCA genes. 14 differnt types of LCA (that they know of). The 1 gene - RPE65 is just one type of LCA. Finley does NOT have this type. This is the ONLY type of LCA they have been able to "cure". So now - Mat will look at ANOTHER type. When those results get to us. I hope this helps. See you tomorrow for "So How Did It Go?" Sunday.
That's a bummer about Finley. We should have figured she wouldn't be so easy to figure out! Fingers crossed for you guys. We are really excited to see you in a few weeks!
We are a family of 5 living in Massachusetts. Mat and I have been married for 16 years, and we have three children. Arlington is 11 years old, and Finley and Cainan are 8 years old. We adopted Cainan from China when he was 14 months old. He was born with cleft lip and palate level three. This blog started out as our journey to bring him into our family and has turned into our family blog. He and Finley are only 30 days apart!! We love being a blended family, and enjoy sharing about our trials and tribulations through becoming one! Also, our daughter Finley was diagnosed in 2009 with Lebers Congenital Amaurosis (LCA) a rare genetic eye condition that has made her legally blind. Come and read about our proud family! If you want to read Cainan's story, click here: The Pletcher Five Journey Blessings Times Three: Cainan's Story
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That's a bummer about Finley. We should have figured she wouldn't be so easy to figure out! Fingers crossed for you guys. We are really excited to see you in a few weeks!
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